dlm: use SHUT_RDWR for SCTP shutdown

Currently SCTP shutdown() call gets stuck because there is no incoming
EOF indicator on its socket. On the peer side the EOF indicator as
recvmsg() returns 0 will be triggered as mechanism to flush the socket
queue on the receive side. In SCTP recvmsg() function sctp_recvmsg() we
can see that only if sk_shutdown has the bit RCV_SHUTDOWN set SCTP will
recvmsg() will return EOF. The RCV_SHUTDOWN bit will only be set when
shutdown with SHUT_RD is called. We use now SHUT_RDWR to also get a EOF
indicator from recvmsg() call on the shutdown() initiator.

SCTP does not support half closed sockets and the semantic of SHUT_WR is
different here, it seems that calling SHUT_WR on sctp sockets keeps the
socket open to have the possibility to do some specific SCTP operations on
it that we don't do here.

There exists still a difference in the limitations of TCP vs SCTP in
case if we are required to have a half closed socket functionality. This
was tried to archieve with DLM protocol changes in the past and
hopefully we really don't require half closed socket functionality.

Signed-off-by: Alexander Aring <aahringo@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Heming zhao <heming.zhao@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Heming zhao <heming.zhao@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>