btrfs: change BUG_ON to assertion in reset_balance_state()

The balance state machine is complex so it's good to verify the
assumptions in helpers, however reset_balance_state() is used
at the end of balance and fs_info::balance_ctl is properly set up before
and protected by the exclusive op ownership in btrfs_balance().

Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Reviewed-by: Anand Jain <anand.jain@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>