pppoe: drop sock reference counting on fast path

Now that PPPoE sockets are freed via RCU (SOCK_RCU_FREE), it is no longer
necessary to take a reference count when looking up sockets on the receive
path. Readers are protected by RCU, so the socket memory remains valid
until after a grace period.

Convert fast-path lookups to avoid refcounting:
 - Replace get_item() and sk_receive_skb() in pppoe_rcv() with
   __get_item() and __sk_receive_skb().
 - Rework get_item_by_addr() into __get_item_by_addr() (no refcount and
   move RCU lock into pppoe_ioctl)
 - Remove unnecessary sock_put() calls.

This avoids cacheline bouncing from atomic reference counting and improves
performance on the receive fast path.

Signed-off-by: Qingfang Deng <dqfext@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250828012018.15922-2-dqfext@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>