md: ensure resync is prioritized over recovery

If a new disk is added during resync, the resync process is interrupted,
and recovery is triggered, causing the previous resync to be lost. In
reality, disk addition should not terminate resync, fix it.

Steps to reproduce the issue:
  mdadm -CR /dev/md0 -l1 -n3 -x1 /dev/sd[abcd]
  mdadm --fail /dev/md0 /dev/sdc

Fixes: 24dd469d ("[PATCH] md: allow a manual resync with md")
Signed-off-by: Li Nan <linan122@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-raid/20250213131530.3698600-1-linan666@huaweicloud.com


Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>