l2tp: don't set sk_user_data in tunnel socket

l2tp no longer uses the tunnel socket's sk_user_data so drop the code
which sets it.

In l2tp_validate_socket use l2tp_sk_to_tunnel to check whether a given
socket is already attached to an l2tp tunnel since we can no longer
use non-null sk_user_data to indicate this.

Signed-off-by: James Chapman <jchapman@katalix.com>
Signed-off-by: Tom Parkin <tparkin@katalix.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>