RDMA/efa: Add option to set QP service level on create

Using modify QP with AH attributes and IB_QP_AV flag set doesn't make
much sense for connectionless QP types like SRD. Add SL parameter to EFA
create QP user ABI and pass it to the device.

Link: https://patch.msgid.link/r/20241015174242.3490-3-mrgolin@amazon.com


Reviewed-by: Firas Jahjah <firasj@amazon.com>
Reviewed-by: Yonatan Nachum <ynachum@amazon.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael Margolin <mrgolin@amazon.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>