mm: remove folio from deferred split list before uncharging it

When freeing a large folio, we must remove it from the deferred split list
before we uncharge it as each memcg has its own deferred split list (with
associated lock) and removing a folio from the deferred split list while
holding the wrong lock will corrupt that list and cause various related
problems.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-mm/367a14f7-340e-4b29-90ae-bc3fcefdd5f4@arm.com/
Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/r/20240311191835.312162-1-willy@infradead.org


Fixes: f77171d2 (mm: allow non-hugetlb large folios to be batch processed)
Fixes: 29f38430 (mm: free folios directly in move_folios_to_lru())
Fixes: bc2ff4cb (mm: free folios in a batch in shrink_folio_list())
Signed-off-by: Matthew Wilcox (Oracle) <willy@infradead.org>
Debugged-by: Ryan Roberts <ryan.roberts@arm.com>
Tested-by: Ryan Roberts <ryan.roberts@arm.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>