net/smc: introduce loopback-ism for SMC intra-OS shortcut

This introduces a kind of Emulated-ISM device named loopback-ism for
SMCv2.1. The loopback-ism device is currently exclusive for SMC usage,
and aims to provide an SMC shortcut for sockets within the same kernel,
leading to improved intra-OS traffic performance. Configuration of this
feature is managed through the config SMC_LO.

Signed-off-by: Wen Gu <guwen@linux.alibaba.com>
Reviewed-by: Gerd Bayer <gbayer@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Wenjia Zhang <wenjia@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-and-tested-by: Jan Karcher <jaka@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>