net/mlx5e: Query FW for buffer ownership

The SW currently saves local buffer ownership when setting
the buffer.
This means that the SW assumes it has ownership of the buffer
after the command is set.

If setting the buffer fails and we remain in FW ownership,
the local buffer ownership state incorrectly remains as SW-owned.
This leads to incorrect behavior in subsequent PFC commands,
causing failures.

Instead of saving local buffer ownership in SW,
query the FW for buffer ownership when setting the buffer.
This ensures that the buffer ownership state is accurately
reflected, avoiding the issues caused by incorrect ownership
states.

Fixes: ecdf2dad ("net/mlx5e: Receive buffer support for DCBX")
Signed-off-by: Alexei Lazar <alazar@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Shahar Shitrit <shshitrit@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Dragos Tatulea <dtatulea@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250820133209.389065-8-mbloch@nvidia.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>