ethtool: rss: prevent rss ctx deletion when in use

ntuple filters can specify an rss context to use for packet hashing
and queue selection. When a filter is referencing an rss context, it
should be invalid for that context to be deleted. A list of active
ntuple filters and their associated rss contexts can be compiled by
querying a device's ethtool_ops.get_rxnfc. This patch checks to see if
any ntuple filters are referencing an rss context during context
deletion, and prevents the deletion if the requested context is still
in use.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Zahka <daniel.zahka@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>