netlink: introduce type-checking attribute iteration for nlmsg

Add the nlmsg_for_each_attr_type() macro to simplify iteration over
attributes of a specific type in a Netlink message.

Convert existing users in vxlan and nfsd to use the new macro.

Suggested-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Carolina Jubran <cjubran@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250629142138.361537-2-mbloch@nvidia.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>