udp: make busylock per socket

While having all spinlocks packed into an array was a space saver,
this also caused NUMA imbalance and hash collisions.

UDPv6 socket size becomes 1600 after this patch.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Willem de Bruijn <willemb@google.com>
Reviewed-by: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@google.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250916160951.541279-10-edumazet@google.com


Reviewed-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>