net: provide pending ring configuration in net_device

Record the pending configuration in net_device struct.
ethtool core duplicates the current config and the specific
handlers (for now just ringparam) can modify it.

Reviewed-by: Michael Chan <michael.chan@broadcom.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250119020518.1962249-4-kuba@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>