btrfs: add extra comments on extent_map members

The extent_map structure is very critical to btrfs, as it is involved
for both read and write paths.

Unfortunately the structure is not properly explained, making it pretty
hard to understand nor to do further improvement.

This patch adds extra comments explaining the major members based on my
code reading.  Hopefully we can find more members to cleanup in the
future.

Reviewed-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>