l2tp: lookup tunnel from socket without using sk_user_data

l2tp_sk_to_tunnel derives the tunnel from sk_user_data. Instead,
lookup the tunnel by walking the tunnel IDR for a tunnel using the
indicated sock. This is slow but l2tp_sk_to_tunnel is not used in
the datapath so performance isn't critical.

l2tp_tunnel_destruct needs a variant of l2tp_sk_to_tunnel which does
not bump the tunnel refcount since the tunnel refcount is already 0.

Change l2tp_sk_to_tunnel sk arg to const since it does not modify sk.

Signed-off-by: James Chapman <jchapman@katalix.com>
Signed-off-by: Tom Parkin <tparkin@katalix.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>