net: add helpers for lookup and walking netdevs under netdev_lock()

Add helpers for accessing netdevs under netdev_lock().
There's some careful handling needed to find the device and lock it
safely, without it getting unregistered, and without taking rtnl_lock
(the latter being the whole point of the new locking, after all).

Reviewed-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Kuniyuki Iwashima <kuniyu@amazon.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250115035319.559603-4-kuba@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>