sched: Add CONFIG_SCHED_PROXY_EXEC & boot argument to enable/disable

Add a CONFIG_SCHED_PROXY_EXEC option, along with a boot argument
sched_proxy_exec= that can be used to disable the feature at boot
time if CONFIG_SCHED_PROXY_EXEC was enabled.

Also uses this option to allow the rq->donor to be different from
rq->curr.

Signed-off-by: John Stultz <jstultz@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Tested-by: K Prateek Nayak <kprateek.nayak@amd.com>
Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/r/20250712033407.2383110-2-jstultz@google.com