drm/xe: Add some members to xe_vma_ops

This will help with moving to single jobs for many bind operations.

v2:
 - Rebase

Cc: Oak Zeng <oak.zeng@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Oak Zeng <oak.zeng@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240425045513.1913039-9-matthew.brost@intel.com