locking: Fix __clear_task_blocked_on() warning from __ww_mutex_wound() path

The __clear_task_blocked_on() helper added a number of sanity
checks ensuring we hold the mutex wait lock and that the task
we are clearing blocked_on pointer (if set) matches the mutex.

However, there is an edge case in the _ww_mutex_wound() logic
where we need to clear the blocked_on pointer for the task that
owns the mutex, not the task that is waiting on the mutex.

For this case the sanity checks aren't valid, so handle this
by allowing a NULL lock to skip the additional checks.

K Prateek Nayak and Maarten Lankhorst also pointed out that in
this case where we don't hold the owner's mutex wait_lock, we
need to be a bit more careful using READ_ONCE/WRITE_ONCE in both
the __clear_task_blocked_on() and __set_task_blocked_on()
implementations to avoid accidentally tripping WARN_ONs if two
instances race. So do that here as well.

This issue was easier to miss, I realized, as the test-ww_mutex
driver only exercises the wait-die class of ww_mutexes. I've
sent a patch[1] to address this so the logic will be easier to
test.

[1]: https://lore.kernel.org/lkml/20250801023358.562525-2-jstultz@google.com/

Fixes: a4f0b6fe ("locking/mutex: Add p->blocked_on wrappers for correctness checks")
Closes: https://lore.kernel.org/lkml/68894443.a00a0220.26d0e1.0015.GAE@google.com/


Reported-by:  <syzbot+602c4720aed62576cd79@syzkaller.appspotmail.com>
Reported-by: Maarten Lankhorst <maarten.lankhorst@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: John Stultz <jstultz@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Reviewed-by: K Prateek Nayak <kprateek.nayak@amd.com>
Acked-by: Maarten Lankhorst <maarten.lankhorst@linux.intel.com>
Tested-by: K Prateek Nayak <kprateek.nayak@amd.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250805001026.2247040-1-jstultz@google.com