btrfs: update prelim_ref_insert() to use rb helpers

Update prelim_ref_insert() to use rb_find_add_cached().

There is a special change that the existing prelim_ref_compare() is
called with the first parameter as the existing ref in the rbtree.

But the newer rb_find_add_cached() expects the cmp() function to have
the first parameter as the to-be-added node, thus the new helper
prelim_ref_rb_add_cmp() need to adapt this new order.

Signed-off-by: Roger L. Beckermeyer III <beckerlee3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>