ANDROID: mmc: Add vendor hooks for sdcard failure diagnostics

For sdcard failure diagnostics, add vendor hooks to monitor the sdcard
identification and the sdcard reset failure in the request
recovery handling.

Link:https://android-review.googlesource.com/c/kernel/common/+/2070567



It is a partial cherry-pick of android13-5.15 for some hooks, and removed
the addition of struct members

Bug: 376616688
Change-Id: I41c62901e10a9faa218af037dd5febdad1f1f1af
Signed-off-by: Guilong Fu <guilong.fu@transsion.com>