xfs: refine atomic write size check in xfs_file_write_iter()

Currently the size of atomic write allowed is fixed at the blocksize.

To start to lift this restriction, partly refactor
xfs_report_atomic_write() to into helpers -
xfs_get_atomic_write_{min, max}() - and use those helpers to find the
per-inode atomic write limits and check according to that.

Also add xfs_get_atomic_write_max_opt() to return the optimal limit, and
just return 0 since large atomics aren't supported yet.

Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: John Garry <john.g.garry@oracle.com>