NFSD: narrow nfsd_mutex protection in nfsd thread

[ Upstream commit 9d3792ae ]

There is nothing happening in the start of nfsd() that requires
protection by the mutex, so don't take it until shutting down the thread
- which does still require protection - but only for nfsd_put().

Signed-off-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.de>
[ cel: address merge conflict with fd2468fa1301 ]
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>