fsnotify: merge file_set_fsnotify_mode_from_watchers() with open perm hook

Create helper fsnotify_open_perm_and_set_mode() that moves the
fsnotify_open_perm() hook into file_set_fsnotify_mode_from_watchers().

This will allow some more optimizations.

Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250708143641.418603-2-amir73il@gmail.com