vhost: option to fetch descriptors through an independent struct

The idea is to support multiple ring formats by converting
to a format-independent array of descriptors.

This costs extra cycles, but we gain in ability
to fetch a batch of descriptors in one go, which
is good for code cache locality.

When used, this causes a minor performance degradation,
it's been kept as simple as possible for ease of review.
A follow-up patch gets us back the performance by adding batching.

To simplify benchmarking, I kept the old code around so one can switch
back and forth between old and new code. This will go away in the final
submission.

Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>