Eliminate the creation of unnecessary read ops when working with ResourceVariables.

In particular:
1. Don't create additional read ops when creating a ResourceVariable from a VariableDef proto.
2. Expose the ability to assign a ResourceVariable without reading & returning the new value.
3. Colocating with a ResourceVariable's ".op" property eliminates the creation of additional read ops.
4. Savers can read a variable's value using the _graph_element property, since these reads don't need control dependencies.

This makes the visualization of graphs on TensorBoard much nicer.

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