[XLA] Extend the HLO verifier to check that non-layout-changing instructions

preserve operand layouts.

Add an std::function member to the HloVerifier for a backend to specify the
function object used to determine whether an instruction can change layouts.
Use the function object to find out the non-layout-changing instructions and
check that such instructions should produce results with the same layouts as
its operands.

Add test cases.

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