[AArch64] Remove AArch64ISD::NOT, use vnot instead

vnot (xor -1) should be equivalent to the AArch64 specific AArch64ISD::NOT
node, but allow more folding thanks to all the target independent
optimizations. Specifically this allows select(icmp ne, x, y) to
become "cmeq; bsl y, x" as opposed to needing to convert the predicate
with "cmeq; mvn; bsl x, y"

Unfortunately there is a regression in a cmtst test, but the code it
selected from was already non-canonical, with instcombine preferring to
use an eq predicate instead. Plus the more common case of icmp ne is
improved.

Differential Revision: https://reviews.llvm.org/D90126