[release-branch.go1.17] runtime: on windows, read nanotime with one instruction or issue barrier

On 64-bit, this is more efficient, and on ARM64, this prevents the time
from moving backwards due to the weaker memory model. On ARM32 due to
the weaker memory model, we issue a memory barrier.

Updates #48072.
Updates #49369.

Change-Id: If4695716c3039d8af14e14808af217f5c99fc93a
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/361057


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