crypto/tls: implement TLS 1.3 middlebox compatibility mode

Looks like the introduction of CCS records in the client second flight
gave time to s_server to send NewSessionTicket messages in between the
client application data and close_notify. There seems to be no way of
turning NewSessionTicket messages off, neither by not sending a
psk_key_exchange_modes extension, nor by command line flag.

Interleaving the client write like that tickled an issue akin to #18701:
on Windows, the client reaches Close() before the last record is drained
from the send buffer, the kernel notices and resets the connection,
cutting short the last flow. There is no good way of synchronizing this,
so we sleep for a RTT before calling close, like in CL 75210. Sigh.

Updates #9671

Change-Id: I44dc1cca17b373695b5a18c2741f218af2990bd1
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/147419


Run-TryBot: Filippo Valsorda <filippo@golang.org>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Adam Langley <agl@golang.org>