net: support single-request resolv.conf option in pure Go resolver

There is a DNS resolution issue in Kubernetes (UDP response packets get dropped due to a race in conntrack between the parallel A and AAAA queries, causing timeouts in DNS queries).

A workaround is to enable single-request / single-request-reopen in resolv.conf in order to use sequential A and AAAA queries instead of parallel queries.

With this PR, the pure Go resolver searches for "single-request" and "single-request-reopen" in resolv.conf and send A and AAAA queries sequentially when found.

Fixes #29644

Change-Id: I906b3484008c1b9adf2e3e9241ea23767e29df59
GitHub-Last-Rev: d481acfb4c49d82fd474078b31a1a4697b57dadf
GitHub-Pull-Request: golang/go#29661
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/157377


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