cmd/go: in cgoflags, permit -DX1, prohibit -Wp,-D,opt

Restrict -D and -U to ASCII C identifiers, but do permit trailing digits.
When using -Wp, prohibit commas in -D values.

Change-Id: Ibfc4dfdd6e6c258e131448e7682610c44eee9492
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/267277


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