cmd/compile: reject large argument areas

Extend stack frame limit of 1GB to include large argument/return areas.
Argument/return areas are part of the parent frame, not the frame itself,
so they need to be handled separately.

Fixes #25507.

Change-Id: I309298a58faee3e7c1dac80bd2f1166c82460087
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/115036


Run-TryBot: Keith Randall <khr@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Josh Bleecher Snyder <josharian@gmail.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>