cmd/internal/obj, runtime: use register map to mark unsafe points

Currently we use stack map index -2 to mark unsafe points, i.e.
PC ranges that is not safe for async preemption. This has a
problem: it cannot mark CALL instructions, because for stack scan
a valid stack map index is needed.

This CL switches to use register map index for marking unsafe
points instead, which does not conflict with stack scan and can
be applied on CALL instructions. This is necessary as next CL
will mark call to morestack nonpreemptible.

For #35470.

Change-Id: I357bf26c996e1fee1e7eebe4e6bb07d62930d3f7
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/207349


Reviewed-by: David Chase <drchase@google.com>