cmd/compile: preserve statements better in expandCalls

Arg/Load/Dereference rewriting was not using the best Pos for
translated values.  I also investigated whether OpCopy processing
was losing statements, and though they flood the debugging output,
doing the "obvious" thing of moving statement marks from copi-er to
copy-ee actually makes the resulting binary score slightly worse on
statement-boundary measures.
(for -N -l, 0.9994 vs 0.9995 from "nostmt -c sqle.test")

Fixes #47793.

Change-Id: I65cb878d0e5a3ceb5da4ef679020ca5f40e9b02b
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/344769


Trust: David Chase <drchase@google.com>
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