bufio: make Reader.Reset and Writer.Reset work on the zero value

For batch allocation reasons, it would be useful to nest a
bufio.Reader or bufio.Writer in a struct as a value,
rather than a pointer. When the Reset method is called,
have it use the default buffer size if the buffer is nil.

Fixes #45374

Change-Id: I80df18a13575431428a42ed150a1579de1282637
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/345570


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