Revert "cmd/compile: check frame offsets against abi"

This reverts CL 293392.

Reason for revert: broke most non-x86 builders

Fixes #44675

Change-Id: I1e815c3ab27a02e83a2f0d221a617909dd021403
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/297549


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