cmd/compile: fix store chain in schedule pass

Tuple ops are weird. They are essentially a pair of ops,
one which consumes a mem and one which generates a mem (the Select1).
The schedule pass didn't handle these quite right.

Fix the scheduler to include both parts of the paired op in
the store chain. That makes sure that loads are correctly ordered
with respect to the first of the pair.

Add a check for the ssacheck builder, that there is only one
live store at a time. I thought we already had such a check, but
apparently not...

Fixes #20335

Change-Id: I59eb3446a329100af38d22820b1ca2190ca46a78
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/43294


Run-TryBot: Keith Randall <khr@golang.org>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Cherry Zhang <cherryyz@google.com>