runtime: fix gccheckmark mode and enable by default

It was testing the mark bits on what roots pointed at,
but not the remainder of the live heap, because in
CL 2991 I accidentally inverted this check during
refactoring.

The next CL will turn it back off by default again,
but I want one run on the builders with the full
checkmark checks.

Change-Id: Ic166458cea25c0a56e5387fc527cb166ff2e5ada
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/9824


Run-TryBot: Russ Cox <rsc@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Rick Hudson <rlh@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Austin Clements <austin@google.com>