cmd/compile: emit writebarriers in specified ABI

old code was always ABI0, new code tracks the default
this may cause some write barrier removals to fail to fire

Updates #40724.

Change-Id: I656bdd5511c5bd6ee6e021999e30d842a6b9f0a5
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/305671


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