[dev.typeparams] runtime: simplify freedefer

Currently, freedefer manually zeros all the fields in the _defer
because simply assigning _defer{} used to cause a nosplit stack
overflow. freedefer is no longer nosplit, so go back to the simpler,
more robust code.

Change-Id: I881f557bab3b1ee7ab29b68e7fb56d0fe6d35d8d
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/339669


Trust: Austin Clements <austin@google.com>
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Reviewed-by: Cherry Mui <cherryyz@google.com>