cmd/link: avoid use of -T when linking with lld

When doing external linking on Windows, auto-detect the linker flavor
(bfd vs gold vs lld) and when linking with "lld", avoid the use of
"-T" (linker script), since this option is not supported by lld.
[Note: the Go linker currently employs -T to ensure proper placement
of the .debug_gdb_scripts section, to work around issues in older
versions of binutils; LLD recognizes this section and does place it
properly].

Updates #39326.

Change-Id: I3ea79cdceef2316bf86eccdb60188ac3655264ed
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/278932


Trust: Than McIntosh <thanm@google.com>
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Reviewed-by: Jeremy Faller <jeremy@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Cherry Zhang <cherryyz@google.com>