cmd/link: convert -I foo to -Wl,--dynamic-linker,foo when externally linking

Fixes #22446

Change-Id: Id5b3fbc9cd3a7d6c4bf4e28428b8cb6d45a9ca92
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/310349


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