cmd/compile: preserve statements in late nilcheckelim optimization

When a subsequent load/store of a ptr makes the nil check of that pointer
unnecessary, if their lines differ, change the line of the load/store
to that of the nilcheck, and attempt to rehome the load/store position
instead.

This fix makes profiling less accurate in order to make panics more
informative.

Fixes #33724

Change-Id: Ib9afaac12fe0d0320aea1bf493617facc34034b3
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/200197


Run-TryBot: David Chase <drchase@google.com>
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Reviewed-by: Keith Randall <khr@golang.org>