net: clarify that Conn deadlines also affect currently-blocked I/O

All implementations have always implemented this behavior, it's
tested, and it's depended on by other packages. (notably, by net/http)

The one exception is Plan 9 which doesn't support I/O deadlines at all
(tracked in #11932). As a result, a bunch of tests fail on plan9
(#7237). But once Plan 9 adds I/O deadline support, it'll also need
this behavior.

Change-Id: Idb71767f0c99279c66dce29f7bdc78ef467e47aa
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/30164


Reviewed-by: Sam Whited <sam@samwhited.com>
Reviewed-by: Ian Lance Taylor <iant@golang.org>