[dev.regabi] cmd/link: stop using ABI aliases if wrapper is enabled

If ABI wrappers are enabled, we should not see ABI aliases at
link time. Stop resolving them. One exception is shared linkage,
where we still use ABI aliases as we don't always know the ABI
for symbols from shared libraries.

Change-Id: Ia89a788094382adeb4c4ef9b0312aa6e8c2f79ef
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/290032


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