net/http/httputil: rewrite flushing code, disable on Server-Sent Events

* Rewrite the flushing code to not use a persistent goroutine, which
  also simplifies testing.
* Define the meaning of a negative flush interval. Its meaning doesn't
  change, but now it's locked in, and then we can use it to optimize
  the performance of the non-buffered case to avoid use of an AfterFunc.
* Support (internal-only) special casing of FlushInterval values per
  request/response.
* For now, treat Server-Sent Event responses as unbuffered. (or rather,
  immediately flushed from the buffer per-write)

Fixes #27816

Change-Id: Ie0f975c997daa3db539504137c741a96d7022665
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/137335


Run-TryBot: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Dmitri Shuralyov <dmitshur@golang.org>