cmd/compile,runtime: change unsafe.Slice((*T)(nil), 0) to return []T(nil)

This CL removes the unconditional OCHECKNIL check added in
walkUnsafeSlice by instead passing it as a pointer to
runtime.unsafeslice, and hiding the check behind a `len == 0` check.

While here, this CL also implements checkptr functionality for
unsafe.Slice and disallows use of unsafe.Slice with //go:notinheap
types.

Updates #46742.

Change-Id: I743a445ac124304a4d7322a7fe089c4a21b9a655
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/331070


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