[release-branch.go1.17] cmd/link: force eager binding when using plugins on darwin

When building/using plugins on darwin, we need to use flat
namespace so the same symbol from the main executable and the
plugin can be resolved to the same address. Apparently, when using
flat namespace the dynamic linker can hang at forkExec when
resolving a lazy binding. Work around it by forcing early bindings.

Updates #38824.
Fixes #50246.

Change-Id: I983aa0a0960b15bf3f7871382e8231ee244655f4
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/372798


Trust: Cherry Mui <cherryyz@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Than McIntosh <thanm@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Ian Lance Taylor <iant@golang.org>
Run-TryBot: Cherry Mui <cherryyz@google.com>
TryBot-Result: Gopher Robot <gobot@golang.org>
(cherry picked from commit c5fee935)
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/373094