cmd/compile: fix ephemeral pointer problem on amd64

Make sure we don't use the rewrite ptr + (c + x) -> c + (ptr + x), as
that may create an ephemeral out-of-bounds pointer.

I have not seen an actual bug caused by this yet, but we've seen
them in the 386 port so I'm fixing this issue for amd64 as well.

The load-combining rules needed to be reworked somewhat to still
work without the above broken rule.

Update #37881

Change-Id: I8046d170e89e2035195f261535e34ca7d8aca68a
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/226437


Run-TryBot: Keith Randall <khr@golang.org>
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Reviewed-by: Cherry Zhang <cherryyz@google.com>